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  • Let me connect

    Originally shared on August 17, 2016

    Every personality has their weak and strong phases, I have never come across someone who was made of complete steel (apart from Superman of-course!!). On contrary, I’ve seen a lot of people faking it, portraying something they aren’t may be due to popular mantra “fake it till you make it”. There is nothing wrong in that as long as if you are doing it for a good reason and not to showoff, like a job interview – where 80% people fake something or rather (that’s what statistics say).

    Indeed it is quite natural instinct to put out your best, isn’t it? I mean almost every one wears a Shield or Armour or a strong-suit at times it is needed to hide your vulnerabilities. But there are times when we should put our guards down and allow our own personality to reveal.

    It is totally up to you to choose who that person in your life is. with who you could be just yourself, with whom you don’t have to wear that Armour anymore and with whom we can reveal your true self.

    This is what I call “having a connection“. This is when your heart and soul gets the opportunity to touch others, this is when you form a bond. I wish everyone finds that person.

    To some lucky ones, connections are made in a heartbeat, and for some of us, it takes a lifetime. Some of us enjoy it for our whole lifetime and some of us wait for it for a lifetime. This is what happens to our protagonist in my latest romance drama feature “Bhindeshi Tara – A foreign star in the sky “. Saikat Majumdar (the lead character) who is a press photo journalist falls in love with a girl of Armenian decent during a time of political turmoil in Calcutta.

    Saikat spends a lifetime waiting for someone he loves, it only takes a heartbeat for that connection which lasted a lifetime. This was the magical dance during a gala night (shown in the picture above) when Saikat holds his would-be lover’s hand and gets engrossed in her beautiful blue eyes.

    I will reveal a more about Saikat and his charming lady love (name to be revealed in my next blog), until then please enjoy your time with your loved ones and do take a moment to connect and say “I Love You”.

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    Yours,
    Arvind J Baswan

  • Who moved my Cheese?

    Who moved my cheese?

    “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” ― Helen Keller

    Long ago, I read this book “Who moved my cheese” I learned something about human psychology that day but never understood the real meaning until quite some time, until someone moved my pack of cheese, until I found the real meaning of emotional resilience.

    There is something peculiar about us human beings, especially when dealing with emotions. Emotions are distinctive set of body sensations, which we experience under specific situations. These can range from subtle to very strong. There are only three primary colours – Red, Blue and Yellow but we can get spectrum of colours by mixing primary colours. Similarly, there are four types of emotions – Joy, Sadness, Anger and Fear. But we can generate a range of the emotions using combination of these. For example, jealousy is combination of anger and fear, pride is combination of joy and anger. We go through different emotions every moment based on situation to situation testing our psychological response to know if that is going to bring pain or pleasure?

    We rely on relations throughout our life. One of the prime areas of our existence that deal with this reaction response every day is relationships. I still remember one of my managers telling relationship is the most important part of your life, be it personal or professional. Relationship does not mean only relationship with people but it also means relationship with profession, relationship with sports, relationship with music and so on. Let’s focus on relationship with some activity such as profession.

    In relationships, we experience various primary and secondary emotions like love, pride, respect, envy, anger, frustration, sadness, and loss. I remember, when I was ready to move to Australia and resigned my job in India, I was having mix of emotions. I was having emotions of joy, excitement, curiosity to explore new country, meeting new people, gaining wider work experience. But somewhere inside me, I was sad leaving my current job, my friends and my country. To my surprise, I was grieving about the loss and it hit me real hard when I returned after my brother’s wedding back in 2005. Leaving a house full of joy, party, celebration and togetherness to a lonely apartment in Strathfield, it was like a punch in the guts as if a great loss, kind of death.  

    Coping with any loss always involves the same dynamics. In every case, whether it’s the loss of a friendship, a career, a limb, whatever, we are forced to admit the fact that we will never experience something or someone again. We are forced to feel an internal emptiness and to accept our pain. Every loss is losing part of us which needs to be rebuilt so that we can replace the loss with new job, new friends and colleagues.

    No one can help you unless you get up and start reconstructing the lost part of yourself. I started attending few seminars, going to temple, found a new job and got connected with new people, made new friends “my eagles group” to who I’ll be eternally grateful. I left my comfort zone behind and started taking life head on; I never imagined I would pursue passion for writing and public speaking. Eternal grateful for that change it made me rediscover myself. I had found new cheese, I embraced my new life.

    So if you are at the juncture where someone has moved your cheese then get excited because it’s time to do something you never thought you will do. It is time to look after your physical and emotional state. It is time for new adventures you never tried before. It is time to go for a run or fitness class or any other sports you like. Maybe try out meditation you might discover something that you’ve never experienced before. I remember my first meditation session back in 2002 I felt as light as a feather, a bird set free to roam the skies, it was pure and serene.

    It is time for New Year to begin, in essence that is what a new year is all about, who cares about earth spinning round the sun in 365 days? But if you look closer it can be real powerful only if you’ve found your cheese.

    “Don’t grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.” 

    Jalaluddin Mevlana Rumi.

    A copy of this article is also available on my Linkedin Page.

    Originally published on January 21, 2018